Sunday, October 31, 2010

Stranger in the Moonlight

Stranger in the moonlight
Are you the one for me?

My eyes always search for you
When I enter a room
I see you and my heart
Quickens
I hear all that you haven’t said
In that one look that passes between us

So I wait for you
To take my hands
Hesitatingly
Into yours
For my eyes to find yours
And you to kiss my forehead

For in that moment I’ll know
You are the one
The one and only
For me.............

Saturday, October 30, 2010

Working on the Bucket List!

Yessssssssssssss!!!!!!!!!!!!!! My CD! My Vidhu! My Vidhudi is back!!! And we are on the bucket list I had posted a few weeks back and we had added on to as and when we missed something!!

So here's to the first few things we've already started ticking off our list:

Hug! (check!) her first hug on Indian soil! I had gone to the airport to pick her up and I was standing the whole two hours that we were waiting for her to come out of that stupid customs!! And to be able to hug her after almost unreal! It was wow!! This is a picture of us at the airport....

Both of us look soooo happy because we are! My life was officially 66% perfect when this picture was clicked.......just missing the last 33%!!








Marine Drive together (check!): Will put up pictures as soon as I get them...but what an evening! Me, Vidhi, the sea and silence that I really appreciate (of course you need to have the innate capacity to shut out the sound from the main road!)...P.S. The picture will be put up as soon as I receive it!


Going to Sanaya's place (check!): God we miss that bawi!!


Go home to Xavier's (check!): It is so rightly said........you can take a person out of Xavier's but you can't take Xavier's out of the person!!! It felt so wonderful to go back to the familiar places and people!! I am just going to let these pictures speak!













Saturday, October 23, 2010

Some Interesting Moments in Life

Finding an old book like an old text book and wanting to read it though you hated it when you actually had to read it.

Coming across a text message in your inbox that you don't want to delete.

Thinking really hard to come up with reasons to call a person to just hear his/ her voice and then actually being able to call them "just like that"!

Restarting a song when you miss your most favourite line!

Craving to eat something...opening the refrigerator...and voila there it is!

Checking the phone again and again for battery/ signal when waiting for a much awaited message...

Going to your old hangout places.... and finding them strange yet familiar...

Counting the number of pages before starting any new chapter.

Shouting "sirrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr/ ma'aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaam" ten minutes before the break!

Friday, October 15, 2010

A Few Thoughts in Hindi

इस जहाँ के पार आसमान और भी हैं
इस मंज़िल के पार  राहें और भी हैं
ढुंढतें चलें हम उन्हें
ढुंढतें चलें हम

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चिरागों की रौशनी का हम क्या करें?
हम तो क्षम्मा के परवानें हैं
औरों को करते हैं यह रोशन
हम तो इनके प्यार में जल ही जाने हैं

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Tuesday, October 12, 2010

Mumbai At Night

Mumbai breathes life at night. If you really want to enjoy Mumbai with slow sips and not the usual rush, see it at night.....

The entire day the city is a beautiful potpourri of rushing people with their sounds, smells, happiness and fears...and it can be overwhelming as a city. But after 12 midnight, it calms down......gets emptier and it breathes life.  That is when those who love to enjoy their lives at leisure should come out and enjoy the city.....

I recently had a night  out with some of my friends, and it was a great experience to enjoy the city as a giant quieted down for the night. And trust me, I enjoy the city at both the paces: the fast and the slow!

Sunday, October 10, 2010

My Bucket List

I completed a few things on my bucket list last night...actually 3 of them and I was like wow!!! I did it!!! And it felt great!!! So here's my bucket list:

  1. Adopt a child. 
  2. Learn how to play the guitar.
  3. Travel and see the whole of India.
  4. See the Taj Mahal from morning to night in all lights.
  5. Sit on a bike and just take an impromptu road trip.
  6. Have a night out painting the town red. (check!)
  7. Get sloshed once...without worrying about the consequences! (check!)
  8. Have a great book collection. (always under construction!)
  9. Write a book (check!)
  10. Marine Drive at night on a bike. (check!) 
  11. Visit New Zealand (or basically wherever my friends are).
  12. Adventure sports of any kind!
  13. Do something that really scares me! (check!)





Thanks to all my friends who helped me achieve a lot of checks last night!! 

Monday, October 4, 2010

The Interesting Subject-Boring Teacher Continuum

Ah!! Another irony that life laughs at after it throws this phenomenon into our face. Commonly observed fact: the more interest you or students in general may have in a subject, the more the probability that the teacher teaching it will be boring.


True story!

Sunday, October 3, 2010

The Student's Act of 2010

We studied the Factories Act today. Yes we were in a lecture on Sunday, and this gave us the idea of drafting a Students' Act of 2010 to better the learning conditions. Some of the provisions we want included in the Act are:

Objective of the Act:

To ensure the betterment of learning conditions for students as per their wishes.

Preliminary:

- Students here are defined as "any person(s) devoting at least 30% of their time to the pursuit of education as provided by institutes termed as educational by the Government.
- It is hereby to be recognised by the Act that the students, as defined above, are the major stakeholders of the educational process.
- In light of the above statement, the educational process is to be modified so as to suit the students' wishes.
- In case of any dispute regarding the conditions of education, the Court of Law shall rule in favour of the student and the decision of the Court will be final and binding on all the parties.


Provisions of the Act:

Provisions for Lecture Hours:

- The weekly lecture hours (including all breaks) should not extend 30 hours. For every planned increase in the same, the students' permission should be sought. If and only if 50% of the class agrees to the increase in the shall the lecture timings be extended.

- Not more than 5 hours of boring lectures should be scheduled in a week. Of these not more than two hours of the aforesaid boring lectures should be scheduled in a day. For deciding boring lectures, the vote of the students should be taken.

- If all the lectures are decided as being boring by the class, then the lecture hours should not extend beyond the stipulated 5 hours a week.

- At least half an hour of rest interval should be provided after every hour of a lecture. This is to ensure the students can get refreshed and "focus" on the next lecture.

- No classes are to be scheduled before 10 am and after 5 pm.

Provisions for Quizzes, Assignments etc:

- Not more than three quizzes, assignments, PPTs or any form of evaluation can be scheduled in a week.

- For every increase in the number of evaluation assignments, the students automatically get 10% of the marks allocated to that assignment.

- There should be at least a two day warning given before a surprise quiz or test or evaluation assignment.

- If the above condition is unfulfilled the aforesaid quiz, test or assignment stands moot.

Provisions for Health and Safety:

- Every institute is to maintain a stock of soft pillows in each class. If a student is found to be sleeping or nodding off in a class, the professor/ teacher/ lecturer is to hand out the same to the student and ensure his/ her comfort.

- A student is allowed at least three bathroom breaks in a class. These are to be of an unlimited period.

- Music stimulates learning and hence students are allowed walkmans, i-pods, their personal music players in any form in the class at a reasonable volume.

- Any ammendments to the above provisions can be made by the student at per his/ her wish at a short notice period of half an hour.


Saturday, October 2, 2010

Marriage Market

Ok so now that I am doing an MBA...everything I see takes on a new flavour..so does whats happening to me right now! Arranged marriages!! No I am not getting married..not for another 3 years at least......but the whole process..is really like what we hear about M&As (Mergers & Acquisitions) in our Strategy classes.

Step 1: Choosing the Strategy:

Well this begins when the elders "ye wise ones" decide its time for the young ones to get married. The reasons for this could anything from the chronological age of the young one to completing "enough" education according to them to well believing ki "bachcha bigadane laga hai".

Step 2: Transaction Evaluation:

Here everything is matched...from the financial stability, to the cultural match to the community and gotra and even astrological matches....it a two month hullabaloo before the guy and girl are even given each other's pictures! And then the process is put into motion.

Of course there are various sources of information for the evaluation....nosy neighbours and relatives, newspapers, community matchmakers, outside matchmakers, and of course, matrimonial sites in today's "advanced" days!

Step 3: Execution:

This is the engagement stage..after the girl and boy have interacted for "enough time" as decided by the elders.

Step 4: The Deal:

Yeah this is the actual marriage! Its length and extravaganza depends on the financial capabilities of the two parties and their willingness to spend also.......some times....just some times.....the wishes of the two parties actually involved the girl and the boy are taken into consideration....

Step 5: Post Merger Evaluation:

How soon they have children and the number of children they have..... well since it is assumed that this is the only true measure of "marital bliss"!!

Ah well............

Moods Rule All

The other day me and a team-mate/ friend were discussing something about how to get permission from our D for some changes we need to get done in some of our SOPs.....and the last sentence we made was.."well, it all depends on his mood ultimately"....so how many important things do actually depend on important people's mood.....

You write a good paper or bad, you still pray the examiner's mood is good enough to get you decent marks.

A creative person won't be able to produce unless he/she is in the mood.

You'll have a bad lecture if the professor is in a bad mood.

If you need permission to do something important, well..it depends on the person's mood from whom you want to take the permission.

However, there can be a flip-side to this argument. In social psychology we learn Kelly's theory of Attribution wherein, if the behaviour of a person is uncharacteristic of him and is distinctive and inconsistent, it is attributed to temporary causes such as the person's mood. And that could be the reason for everything being linked to a person's moods.

So do moods come first or do behaviours come first?