There are people who show their emotions and there are some who hide them well.
I was always confused as to who of these are stronger?
Those who show their emotions have recognized them and accepted them, simple! They are not afraid of them, they accept them and are not afraid to show them. But they are termed as weak because we consider it a weakness to show our emotions. That's why we are uncomfortable when someone around us cries.
I am not saying that those who do not express their emotions freely have not accepted them. I feel they are somewhere between the stages of accepting them and being comfortable with them. And we call such people strong? Is the society right in labelling such people strong?
Time to think I guess!
To an extent it also depends on the people surrounding us. If we are always under pressure to conform, we will not be willing to accept all emotions.
ReplyDeleteits not the society but more importantly the one to one relationships that really matter... i may be strong for one person...weak for another... its all about perception i believe...
ReplyDeleteIt is about perceptions! If someone chooses not to express their emotions does not necessarily make them stronger or weaker. Also, how much you can show emotions in front of people depends on how comfortable you are with them or if you know what the repercussions will be of displaying the emotions, as you know well! All said and done, it is a totally valid thought that it's much healthier and more mature to face and accept your emotions than to try and hide them and hide from them!
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